Using Dildos  

November 2011

One of the most universal sex toys, dildos have been around for centuries and have been used by people of many nations and cultures, from ancient China to Rome, to enhance sexual pleasure. Dildos are shaped like penises and used for vaginal or anal penetration to simulate intercourse. They may be used by one person for masturbation, or in the case of strap-on dildos they may be worn by one person to penetrate another.

Choose your weapon

Although most dildos are basically penis shaped, they come in a variety of styles and types from smooth and unrealistic to anatomically correct realistic models. Dildos are made of a variety of materials, including rubber, silicone, and even metal or glass. Silicone dildos are usually high quality and long lasting, but are more expensive. Jelly rubber dildos are not as durable, but can be a good choice for beginners because they are soft, flexible, and inexpensive. For the most realistic feeling, dildos made of 'Cyberskin' and similar materials offer a silky and amazingly flesh-like texture and pliability.

They can be used for either vaginal or anal penetration. In either case, we recommend using a water-based lubricant. Oil or silicone-based lubes can damage sex toys made of rubber, silicone, or Cyberskin, while water-based lubes are compatible with all materials and clean up easily.

Masturbating with dildos

When masturbating with a dildo, many women enjoy first rubbing the head and shaft of the dildo against their clitoris and labia to get themselves aroused. They may then push the dildo into the vagina, moving it in and out with one hand while massaging the clitoris with the other. Vibrating dildos and multifunction dildos can be used for both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. Some dildos feature suction cup bases so they can be affixed to a smooth surface such as a wall, floor, or shower tiles. You can then pleasure yourself with the dildo by moving against it, without using your hands.

Many women also enjoy using dildos for anal penetration, but remember, if you put 

something in your anus, don't put it in your vagina without thoroughly cleaning and disinfecting it first. Otherwise you may transfer germs that can cause vaginal infections. Women who enjoy dual penetration may use two dildos at the same time, or use a double penetrator with two shafts to penetrate simultaneously.

Some men also enjoy using dildos for anal penetration during masturbation. Remember that dildos should not be used anally unless they have a wide base or 'testicles' at the end to prevent them from going all the way inside the rectum. And be sure to use plenty of lubrication. Men can use dildos anally to stimulate their prostate gland during masturbation. The prostate is located between the penis and anus, just below the bladder, and can be stimulated by applying pressure a few inches inside the anus against the front wall of the rectum. Stimulating the prostate can increase the intensity of orgasm for males and in some cases increase ejaculation.

Sharing the experience

If you're masturbating with a friend, and you both want to use a dildo at the same time, you can use a double dildo which is long and flexible and has a penis head at each end. If one of you wants to do the driving, try a strap-on which is attached to a harness that fits around the waist and legs of the wearer.

Cleaning up

When you're finished with your dildo, be sure to clean and store it properly to prolong its life. Wash it thoroughly with warm water and a mild antibacterial soap, or use a sex toy cleaner. Pat it dry, then wrap it in a clean cloth and store it in a 

closed box or drawer. Cyberskin toys need to be handled very carefully to avoid tearing the material, and should be dried thoroughly prior to storage. To make cleaning easier, you may want to put a condom on your dildo before you use it, especially if you are inserting it anally. This is also recommended for all dildos made of Cyberskin, because its is harder to clean and more porous than other materials.

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